roommate code 101

Sharing an apartment with another person comes with challenges. Opposite schedules, cleaning habits, cooking preferences are just a few of the common reasons roommates can clash. Fortunately, there are steps you can take to avoid these unwanted issues.

Open communication

Just like any relationship, communication is key to having a healthy roommate experience. Discussing things like cleaning habits and chores will help resolve potential issues before they’re an actual problem. Be honest with what you’re comfortable with and what you’re not. People can be extremely different when it comes to what they think is “normal” behavior. If boundaries aren’t clear-cut, problems are likely to arise.

ask before you borrow

Don't borrow anything from your roommate without them expressing permission beforehand. Even if you’ve asked before and the answer was yes, ask again. If you do borrow something from your roommate be sure to return or replace it as soon as you can.

party smart

Only throw parties if every roommate agrees it's OK. When your roommates agree, be considerate and kind. Don't go too late if people are trying to sleep. Clean up, toss out the trash, and put everything back where you found it.

Your Significant Other Isn’t Your Roommate

If you have a significant other, be respectful of everyone else in the apartment. Be sure to have a conversation with your roommate about boundaries when it comes to your partner.

Do Your Chores

Share your chores equally and when it's your turn, do them. Make sure to maintain your daily messes. If you eat or cook, clean up. If you make a mess, pick it up. If the trash is full or smelly, take it out. Consider creating a chore chart like this one recommended by Apartment Therapy.

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